I am actually a psychologist, and I tell patients all the time that people are more serious and more invested in finding a serious relationship if they are paying for a service.
The free dating sites do not offer that same incentive.
Dating sites can seem almost as daunting as the Internet itself: With so many options, how exactly do you know where to click?
You don't need to spend hours filling out questionnaires.Neither of us would have been patient enough for that!The New York metro is the epicenter for single older women, with 325,000 more women than men.Other metros with a lot more single older women than men are Chicago, Atlanta, Washington, Philadelphia, Miami, Dallas, Houston and Boston. Smaller communities where the odds favor women, namely: Hanford-Corcoran, California; Jacksonville, North Carolina; The Villages, Florida; Watertown-Fort Drum, New York; and Michigan City-La Porte, Indiana.By reading their answers, I think it's easier to tell who is serious and who isn't.
Also, it's a free service, so it didn't feel like a huge commitment just to try it out.Lisa Copeland is a fabulous woman, with a passion for helping women to find quality men.If you have you have ever noticed that older men are unlikely to make eye contact with your or have felt completely ignored at a dance or party, Lisa thinks she knows why.My husband later told me he had refined his search because he wanted to date an artist this time.He posted samples of his sculptures on his profile.This helped me to discover even more what I liked and didn't like and what I was truly looking for.