I learned how to overcome many self-limiting beliefs about who I was and what I was capable of.I learned more about how to present myself in a positive manner, how to flirt, how to dress and, yes, how to seduce women. I lived a life that I didn’t think I could ever know, did things I never thought I’d have a chance to experience and I had a it took me a while to climb back out of that hole.
It’s one thing to try to rank how attractive a woman is relative to others; physical beauty is as much in the eye of the beholder after all.
But in PUA culture, the rating is treated as a than a 6 or a 7 because she’s going to be that much “harder” to “game”.
Some of it is good, some of it is awful, and some of it is absolutely absurd, but it’s There isn’t as much out there for men.
We have precious few role-models for how to approach women we want to sleep with in a healthy, respectful way.
All that matters is that you continue to try to escalate physically until she makes it genuinely clear that it’s not happening.
She wants to be desired, but the circumstances need to be right.With some experience, you will learn to differentiate the I am actually not anti-pick up in general.Quite the opposite in fact; I think that there’s a lot of good to be found in it.One thing that most people who enter the pick-up community have in common is that they’re intimidated by women. Men who are at ease with women have an easier time talking to them, flirting with them and asking them out on dates; these are generally not the people who enter “how to meet women” into Google.Many of the people who write in to me have literal anxiety attacks at the idea of approaching a woman and striking up a conversation with her.For some men, that panicky feeling of talking to the girl you like in the 5th grade never fully goes away.