Take that “lol” out of the sentence, and it really just comes across as strange.But when you keep it in, it shows that you’re just making a joke out of something boring. It’s so much easier to come up with your own as this has no context for a real conversation and would be useless if you tried to duplicate it.
Most high-status or quality girls have a lot going on in their lives; therefore, they tend to be busy a lot of the time and tend to take longer to reply back to your texts. If she takes, say, half an hour to reply back to your initial text, and you reply within a minute or two of her response, you come off as very needy.
(It’s either this, or they just want to appear busy and will take their time in replying.) This is okay. (You also come off as a bit creepy, like you were just staring at your phone like some kind of Fatal Attraction-type character, just waiting for her to answer you, and when she did, you answered her right away.) I’m telling you right now that, if you do anything resembling this, you will totally creep the woman out. Now I take my time in responding to a woman, and by doing so, I create intrigue and interest as well as more attraction. A simple rule is to take as long (if not longer) to reply to her texts as she takes to reply to yours.
Just try to understand the usefulness of “lol” here and there. Putting “lol” into every sentence, or even every few sentences, makes you look like a half-assed, not-so-funny, would-be comedian!
Instead, use it rather sparingly and interchangeably with the smiley faces. Otherwise, you’ll come off as trying too hard to be funny and look weak.
I’d look at my phone every minute or so after I had texted a woman to see if she’d replied back yet.
I’d look at my message, make sure it had been sent and had actually gone through.
At the same time, though, you’re making a bit of a joke about her not being around, so it’s a good way to ask something semi-seriously while at the same time coming across as playful. Using “lol” is a similar thing I like to do and recommend.
It’s basically the same idea as the smiley face and can also be used to lighten the mood.
You see it everywhere, from texting and driving to people out on dates, where one person is texting while the other is looking around, bored to death.
For me, waiting to hear back from people I had texted made me very restless.
Many guys struggle with what to text a girl and how to communicate effectively with them!