I know sex is wrong cause the Bible says it but if I cuddle with my girlfriend on a couch is it wrong? Ephesians 5:3 “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality or of any kind of impurity or of greed because these are improper for God’s holy people.” Who are holy people? To be NOT like the “others.” The “others” in this case is the world beloved. Yet that “no big deal”, GOD says it shouldn’t exist in the believer. We ask how far is too far, GOD asks how blind can we be. I put it to you that both are poison and both will kill you.
A hint is a teeny tiny weenie gesture, It’s no big deal. Whether it’s a teaspoon or a cupful, only a fool would drink the spiked juice. A kiss on the cheek is a teaspoon and penetration sex is a cupful.
I am happy to say that there are very few things that I look back on and wish I hadn’t done.
Holiness is not about how far is too far but how pleasing is what I’m doing to GOD.
Although the target audience of Christian Nymphos is married Christian women, I want to take the time to speak to the unmarried women who might come across our blog to address the age old question: How far is too far?
Just believe me when I tell you that oral sex, anal sex, breast sex, and penis in vagina sex are all sex, and it is my conviction that all of them are behaviors that are completely inappropriate outside of a committed marital relationship.
Q – My question is how far is too far in a relationship, that is not marriage? If I were to re-phrase the question it could basically be “How far can I go until I do something that will harm the other person or myself?
So we want to follow the command to flee sexual immorality which involves the idea of getting as far away from it as we can rather than seeing how close we can get.
In light of this, I will share some of the physical boundaries I established to keep myself from lusting after the guys I dated when I was single.(We knew early on that we would get married.) I didn’t feel that I needed to set that boundary, but he did so I honored that.These are modest boundaries and so uncommon today, but I am still young.Any act that would involve the parts that are normally covered by a bathing suit was most definitely something I had determined that I did not find to be appropriate for an unmarried person.Boundary 2: If my physical behavior is something I will be embarrassed to tell my husband about some day, I won’t do it.Thoughts turn to lust far sooner than the moment a penis is inserted into a vagina.