Just sounds to me like you're asking alot from just a couple of evenings out with someone. Too bad you don't have a picture on your profile, so we'd know if you have the shiniest coat! Rapezon - regarding discovery versus exclusivity.... I don't know how others fare in the on-line dating world, but my experience is feast or famine.
Cuz some chicks and men get all weird when they think they're the only one you're dealing with, then find out otherwise.maybe the word "dating" should be replaced with the word "meeting" when it is just a first date and then it doesn't sound as bad to be meeting several people.
After all we all know that we are all speaking to more than one person when we are on a dating site.
If she acknowledged to go on a second date with you, then you still had a good hand. He/they are exactly in the same position as you are. When one goes out with a friend...it a date....just getting out. When you find your lil' miss perfect....you'll be shit outta luck...she'll be looking for MR. I get weirded out when someone expects me to follow some set of rules after just a handful of dates.
Calling off a date will also make you out to appear as possessive and/or selfish. I hear ya, but I don't know if a person can make a decision that quickly. If one has many friends...is single.......that's the benifits of being single. Linda really likes going quading.....hates to cook doesn't like water. Perhaps your in the ..can't cook catigory with this lady that has stolden your heart. It is completely possible to date several people and give them special attention, because different people bring new and different things to the dating arena. I can’t tell you how many times I got cheated by focusing on one guy to the detriment of another.
and just for added clarity, I'm only talking dating, not sex). Or do you have five other women lined up waiting to date you while you give an exclusive commitment to this lady on the first date?
Cause if you don't, you end up wondering 'what could have been' when you get to one of those inevitable famine stages.
This is the typical reaction when a friend suggests that maybe that guy whose been dangling you along for months is juggling a couple other women.
But, the guilty conscience associated with dating multiple people has been worn down over the years.
Question – Is there anything wrong with dating several people at the same time? Apparently she felt the same way – enough at least to agree to a second date.
Trouble is, I found out she is dating several other guys at the same time.
And if there is interest, isn’t it better to avoid the distraction of a dating lineup and give that person your undivided attention until such time as you know one way or the other if they are right for you. who's fooling who and who is really trying to find out about someone. I pretty much wrote it off, although he kept saying how much he liked our dates, etc.