We analyzed the 1,000 most popular words on both men and women’s profiles, tabulated the most popular movies and TV shows, and crunched stats on what people consider their best feature vs.
what features their potential dates are attracted to.
We even scoured the top 400 most popular Ok Cupid profiles—the hottest people on the site in ten US cities—to see what their profile pics could tell the rest of us about attracting a date.
If you create a dating profile based on a woman that you think a man would like, you're never going to find the man that's right for you," Schreffler says.
"When I was writing my book, I created many dating profiles.
Then, do your research; think about what you are looking for, and find out how to attract that kind of person.
You'll want to write a profile that represents you and what you're looking for.
I will show you how to create an attention-grabbing, unique username that represents you and a matching mantra to help you stand out in the crowd.
When I polled Facebook users for their tips on creating usernames I got vague advice like “be yourself” and “be authentic,” “use your name,” and comments such as “usernames are not at all important, as long as they are not terrible.”Imagine you found 20 people online attractive.
The tips got pretty specific in some cases: It’s 28 percent better for a male to refer to females as women rather than girls, and men who use “whom” get 31 percent more contacts from the opposite sex.
If you haven't dipped your toe in the online dating pool yet, the prospect of diving in can be overwhelming.
No more than three paragraphs," Donaldson says, "A good example includes interesting information about yourself, your hobbies, and what you love about your life." You want to represent yourself and intrigue potential partners. Picking Profile Pictures Pictures aren't optional; they're essential to catching the eye of a potential partner.
"Men are visual," Donaldson says, "So if you don't appeal to their sense of beauty, they will not write to you." He recommends one or two photos minimum but never more than four.
In short, we couldn’t have scraped all this data and derived this advice without the help of these talented data crunchers who are as dedicated to data analysis as we are.