Men who expect you to clean up their dishes, pick up their clothes and take care of them as if they are little children on a consistent basis need a really check, and will likely treat you as if you are their mother for the rest of their lives. While everyone likes a good deal, real men will not make this known when courting a woman. There's nothing wrong with sitting on the couch and watching sports. But this should never trump the responsibilities of a relationship or take precedence over family obligations. These changes in effort can be very foretelling of how he will be a year or two down the road. The I-had-sex-and-now-I-don't-have-to-try-anymore guy. Always play close attention to how a guy's behavior changes once he has had sex with you for the first time. Be very wary of men who talk up a big game of what they plan on doing with their lives.
Maybe you'll find out she hates sunshine and puppies in conversation and decide not to hit on her and save yourself some time." - Shay D., 24 “Guys please take into consideration that we are more emotional and feel different about things than you do.
With that being said, please be sensitive to your mate's feelings and step outside of yours from time to time.” -- Jasmine G., 27“Friendship is a great foundation to a meaningful relationship.
Avoid a never-ending list of praise — it can get overwhelming — or comments that sound too sexual.
She likely put some effort into her look for you, so offer her a compliment or two.
Spontaneity is fun and great here and there, but a woman like me is grinding right now and doesn't always have the luxury of that.
So show me you respect my time and let me know things in advance.
Whether we're in the early getting to know phase or deeply committed, my little boo thing – whatever – if you want my time you have to value it.” -- Natelege W., 27“I'm always surprised when they do the little things, like bringing my favorite candy or one flower. Listening will help you figure out the small gestures and surprises like saying "let's go to Chic-fil-a and a movie," because you know it's one of my favorite things.” -- Ashlee D., 23“A lot of what women do is to get the attention of men.
So when men say they don't like make-up and weaves but every time a woman walks by with a weave down her back and makeup caked on her face and he's breaking his neck to see her, that's very confusing.
The I-get-increasingly-less-romantic-with-each-date guy. Many men break out all the stops early on in the dating process, but by the fifth of sixth date, the laziness starts to creep in.
Often times when this line is pulled, its code for "I'm looking for a marriage and kids, just not with you." Steer clear. But men who are constantly suggesting that they want to just stay in and watch a movie early on in the dating game are likely the lazy type, or only out for sex.
If the idea of staring at her from across a table all night intimidates you, choose an interactive date. Even if she offers, insist on paying for the date — especially if you initiated the date in the first place.